Thursday, July 25, 2013

Be Vulnerable

A friend sent me a link to a Ted Talk on Vulnerability.  The presenter's name was Brene Brown.  I found myself intrigued with her comments.  I could relate to her transformation from an analytical view of the world to a 'daring' view of the world.   I love approaching my life with a brave heart.  Yet, sometimes I am afraid....but chose to "Do it brave and afraid."   I was eating in a hotel restaurant this evening watching a young couple.  They were dressed very nice texting and watching the TV.  Neither were looking at each other.   I admit to eaves dropping.  He was an attorney......she smiling at her partner with that plastic smile we alll know while he was talking business to a colleague.   I was filled with grief for them.  Then I realized how judgemental I was being.  I was putting my perception of their reality as truth.  But I couldn't help myself.   As I left the restaurant I stopped by their table.......leaned into the young woman's ear and said,  " Life is short.  This table is boring. Don't forget that silly is good."   As I now sit in my room I laugh and think....silly is good. That’s what I wish for you- for us- for the world:  Do something silly that makes you laugh so much it  shakes out all the stored tension, and reminds you/me of how silly our fears sometimes are.
Peace.

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